Have you had a look at the meal plans description in
DLRP Magic? It gives you a list of all the restaurants where you can eat using the Plus dining plan.
For example from your list, Inventions is not included (but you can still use your vouchers there at their vace value)
You have some great choices there!
How old is your little girl? If you're going to Inventions, I would first make sure she's not scared with the characters!! Make sure you go and see some characters before... When we took our niece a few years ago (she was 5), we started with lunch at Cafe Mickey, as soon as she saw Mickey Mouse coming to see us at our table, my niece was hiding under the table!! And she spent the whole meal there... So try to see how she is with the characters before... You can always do Inventions later in the week!
One day you want to have lunch at the Manhattan restaurant, you may find when you call and book that not all restaurants in the hotels open for lunch! You can always have Monday dinner at Manhattan and Tuesday lunch at the Steakhouse (for example). Or if you want to have lunch in the park, the Blue Lagoon is also a good place to go!!
In any case, hope you have a wonderful time
