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Title: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 06, 2013, 05:34:48 PM
I am heading to DLP for my second solo trip at the end of March.

I go to Disneyland California every year with friends , I have been there 3 times and trip number 4 will be in the summer. While I really enjoy the Disney experience with friends, in 2011 I decided to try DLP as a solo traveler.  

I have done city trips as a solo traveler and I really enjoy the freedom to explore and just loose myself in new experiences, so I was really looking forward to just doing my own thing in Disney without having to fit in with other people needs.

I enjoyed that trip so much that I am heading back to DPL as a solo traveler at the end of March 2013 . My first trip I stayed at Hotel Santa Fe and this time I am trying Sequoia Lodge. I will be back and let you all know how my trip was  :)
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: SwipatronSparks on February 07, 2013, 07:44:55 PM
sounds like fun looking forward to your report =]
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: Rafael on February 07, 2013, 08:36:46 PM
Looking forward to reading your report :)
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: disney-dan on February 08, 2013, 02:22:46 AM
I just did this and hated it but obviously you enjoyed it so hope you have a fab time
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: princessemily on February 08, 2013, 01:50:26 PM
Would love to do this some day, when the kids all grown up, and I only have myself to please.  You should check out the Disneyland Paris forum, on Tripadvisor.  There is a poster there, called Figgygirl, who has done some very successful solo trips.  You will find her reports under the general trip report heading.  
Happy planning.
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 08, 2013, 08:47:03 PM
Quote from: "SwipatronSparks"sounds like fun looking forward to your report =]

Hi SwipatronSparks  :)

 
Quote from: "Rafael"Looking forward to reading your report

Hi Rafael  :)

 
Quote from: "disney-dan "I just did this and hated it but obviously you enjoyed it so hope you have a fab time
Hi disney-dan I'm sorry to hear you didn't enjoy your trip. Can I ask why? Did things like eating alone in restaurants, or going on rides alone make you feel awkward?  Have you done other solo traveler holidays?  I'm not bothered about eating alone at restaurants, I just bring a book with me. I have traveled alot on my own, and I just love the freedom of exploring and new experiences. I go to Disneyland California with a group of friends and it is a very different experience as a solo traveler.

 
Quote from: "princessemily "Would love to do this some day, when the kids all grown up, and I only have myself to please. You should check out the Disneyland Paris forum, on Tripadvisor. There is a poster there, called Figgygirl, who has done some very successful solo trips. You will find her reports under the general trip report heading.
Happy planning.

Hi princessemily
yes it is a very different experience when you dont have kids or even other adults with you. OOOh thanks for that I will check out Tripadvisor and find Figgygirl's posts  :)
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: DisneyDancer92 on February 08, 2013, 10:51:06 PM
That sounds exciting- cant wait to read your report :D and nice to meet a fellow "solo-traveler"- I did my first solo trip to DLRP last August- and doing a similar trip again in 10 days. I can only agree with what you said about freedom and being able to do exactly what you want- I enjoyed my first trip solo to DLRP alot and cant wait to get back. In general I also dont mind doing things on my own- if I want to go see a show Ill just do it- I like the freedom of being independent.
If I could find someone equally in love with the place to go with me I would of course choose that- but doing it alone has another kind of charm, and as long as I get to go to disney- I dont really mind :D
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: lauralouisemidwinter on February 10, 2013, 01:24:53 PM
When is your trip, ours  is the 24th of March :)
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 10, 2013, 02:23:36 PM
Quote from: "DisneyDancer92"That sounds exciting- cant wait to read your report :D and nice to meet a fellow "solo-traveler"- I did my first solo trip to DLRP last August- and doing a similar trip again in 10 days. I can only agree with what you said about freedom and being able to do exactly what you want- I enjoyed my first trip solo to DLRP alot and cant wait to get back. In general I also dont mind doing things on my own- if I want to go see a show Ill just do it- I like the freedom of being independent.
If I could find someone equally in love with the place to go with me I would of course choose that- but doing it alone has another kind of charm, and as long as I get to go to disney- I dont really mind :D

Hi DisneyDancer92 , great to meet another solo traveller, I hope you have a great time  :)  exactly, if I want to see a show I will go too. Last time I spent nearly the full EMH on Peter Pans Flight.  The CM were very helpful and let me stay on as there was no one in the queue, so I went round and round for nearly an hour. Its stuff like that you can only do on your own, cos I know if I was with other people they wouldnt have wanted to stay on as long as I did. Later in the day I did the same with POTC. As soon as the ride ended I went right back to the front and went back in again.  I did this a few times in a row as the wait time was very short  :)  When I go to Disneyland in California Im with friends and I cant get to go back in a ride like that.

And talking of the EMH, I know that if I was with my friends, trying to get everyone up in time,to have breakfast and be in the park before 10am would be impossible. Being on my own, I can just get up and go without having to wait for anyone, knowing that we are wasting time when the park has opened.

Quote from: "lauralouisemidwinter "When is your trip, ours is the 24th of March

Hi lauralouisemidwinter omg, we will be there the same time  :mickey2:  I arrive 25 March and leave 27 March
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: lauralouisemidwinter on February 10, 2013, 03:04:56 PM
OMG we travel on the 24th so our days in the park are 25th and 26th :D
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: PrincessHi on February 13, 2013, 08:37:03 AM
Hello there!
I'm really looking forward to reading your report - I have just booked a trip to DLP in September which will not only be my first visit but my first solo holiday too! I have taken short trips in the UK alone before though and I don't mind things like eating on my own etc so I'm not really worried about it - I'm just really excited to be finally going after years and years of wanting too  :cheshire_bounce:

It will be great to read your report though and any tips that you have for me  :thumbs:
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: orangarnold on February 15, 2013, 11:37:57 AM
I am thinking of a solo trip to DLP at some point soon too, my friends aren't big roller coaster fans so its hard for me t go on the rides I want to go on. Will look forward to your report
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 15, 2013, 12:21:32 PM
great to see so many positive reactions , thank you everyone  :)

It seems lots of you would like to do solo trips too but are a bit unsure as people always think of Disney as somewhere you go with your family or group of friends.  

People think nothing of doing solo city trips or going inter railing around Europe on their own, to me doing a solo trip to Disney is exactly the same.  A long as you are aware of your own personal safety and do proper research,  doing a solo trip to Disney is actually alot safer than doing a solo city trip.

I always make sure I have a book, my mobile phone is fully charged and I am very aware of my surroundings, picking out landmarks I pass so that I familiarize  myself with where I am and how to return that place.  Also some simple street smart things, like only staying in well lit places where there is traffic , both people and cars, making sure I have a secure handbag which I keep on the front of my body and if I don't have a bag, I make sure my phone and money are in secure inside pockets.

Also another trick I use, which doesn't really apply in Disney but is more for city solo trips. I don't look like a typical tourist,
If I go to London for example, I wont have my camera around my neck, I wont wear or have visible a hat or bag or clothes from the tourist shops, you know the  " I heart London"  stuff. I wont wear my "good holiday clothes" I wear my normal clothes which I would wear on a regular shopping trip to my local shopping centre.  I don't walk around holding a map, either a street map or tube map.

I used to live in London and would often meet my friends at one of the tube stations on Oxford Street.  While waiting for my friends, "spot the tourist" was my favorite way to pass the time.  The clothes were the first giveaway. You could always tell a tourist couple from a local London couple, cos they would be dressed in very obvious holiday clothes, usually with a camera in their hand and the woman would have a bag which you knew was not her regular every day handbag.  

On the tubes, "spot the tourist" is easy too. My trick is to always look like you know where you are going, don't hold the tube map in your hand. Plan your route before hand,  check the map BEFORE you go on the tube. London people need to plan their routes too, but London people use the maps on the walls of the tubes or in the tube stations, not the paper maps.
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: DisneyDonna on February 15, 2013, 02:08:05 PM
I'm thinking of doing a solo trip as well, however I'm only 18 years old, is this a bit too young regarding safety?
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 15, 2013, 02:41:47 PM
Quote from: "Donuttiejj"I'm thinking of doing a solo trip as well, however I'm only 18 years old, is this a bit too young regarding safety?

It depends. Some 18 year olds are very streetwise, and mature, while others are not.

Things you need to ask yourself

 Do you still live at home or have you ever spent time away from your parents like at a holiday camp.
How do you feel when your family is away and you are on your own for a few days.
Can you plan your day without supervision.
How would you feel about going into a restaurant, ordering a meal and sitting at a table on your own.
 Do you have a good sense of direction or do you rely on people to bring you places, are you aware of your surroundings. Have you ever taken a flight or any sort of transport  on your own.
Do you speak French, how would cope on your own in a country where you dont speak the language.
Do you get anxious and afraid when you are on your own and in a place you have have never been to?
How would you cope being on your own using an unfamiliar currency (if your home country does not use Euro)
How would you cope with unfamiliar food which you have no idea what it tastes like and not seeing food items which you take for granted at home.

You dont need to post your answers, just seriously think about every angle. People forget that Disney is in France, and that when you land at the airport everything is in the French language.  Landing at Charles De Gaulle you still have to get yourself to Disney, which is approx 40 minutes travel from the airport.

It really depends on the person, how mature and independent you are, how capable you are of looking after yourself.  Disney itself I would say is great place for a first time solo traveller.
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: orangarnold on February 15, 2013, 04:17:41 PM
I do solo trips here there and everywhere all the time, and yes the key is to make sure you're safe and blend in as best as you can with how you dress and act
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: DisneyDancer92 on February 16, 2013, 04:54:19 AM
Donuttiejj: I can only add to what has been said. I am also a quit young solo traveller- being 20. I have done solo trips abroad since I was about 18- and it can feel quite daunting at first, since your so used to travelling with one of your parents to take care of all the practical stuff, papers, etc. But it is something that makes you grow alot- and will make you cope alot better in situations in your normal life. My pointers would be:

-Research!: basically research everything. In the case with Disney- research the train system to and from the park, print out (or take pictures on your phone) of maps you might need to get you to your hotel, the airport, etc. Don't leave anything to be sorted out during the trip- also because you most likely won't have the same access to internet on your phone as normally- and a good advice would be to print it all out anyway, just in case your phone dies out.

- Be prepared for the unexpected: Think about how you cope in a stressfull situation. We have probably all witnessed while on holiday with our parents that something goes wrong- a passport goes missing, a map led to the wrong hotel, credit card suddenly stops working,etc- but they coped with it in a calm matter never letting us know there was any problems. As a solo traveller (especially a young one who is new to being so independent) you might suddenly find yourself in an unfortunate situation- but in this case you need to cope with it alone. I have allmost missed a plane 6 hours from where I lived, thought I had lost my passport, couldn't find the hotel, etc. the issue is probably easily solved- but you need to be able to take a deep breath, not pannick and find a soloution. Theres nothing worse than pannicking, alone, far away in another country. Again this is where the research comes in- the more you know the less likely this is to happen, and the easier it is to solve.

The questions to ask yourself that bad-pink-tink posted are really good- because its very important to be sure youre ready for it- or it can suddenly be quite scary to stand in a foreign country. That said- if you stay in one of the onsite Disney hotels- Disney is a very easy destination for a solo traveller, compared to say a city like London, its all very safe, everybody speaks english and theres people to help you everywhere. If you arrive with eurostar it's so easy, since youll be in the magic right away- and if you fly it's not very difficult to get from the airport either (and again lots of people to help you). I find Disney to be the most pleasant and easy travel destination. I stay offsite in Busy St Geogres (because you can find really nice cheap hotels- and Im a student)- but for someone who might not have travelled on their own before, its def better to stay onsite, since you wont have to figure out the RER trains, how to get to the hotel, etc.

If you feel like youre ready to do it- go ahead! It gives you and amazing feeling of independence- and its so valuable to learn how to travel and do things on your own.
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Trip Report
Post by: orangarnold on February 17, 2013, 12:00:34 AM
I'm now 26 and I've had more breaks away alone than I have with company since I was 18. I've even gone to NYC on my own, that was brilliant.

Yes being prepared for the unexpected is the big thing. Some main things I always do to make sure that I am prepared for the worst:

-Make and print off copies of full travel intinerys (right down to your planned time of leaving your home) give a copy to your main point of contact at home, keep a spare copy in your home, and keep one on you
-Make sure someone knows when you are on the transport, arrived at your destination and keep them updated on general disruptions/delays
-Agree in advance with your point of contact at home how often you are going to keep in touch and how, say a text message in the morning and at night, a phone call at lunch etc.
-Make sure you have photocopies of passports and have the out of country contact number for your bank
-Make sure you have enough money or access to enough money to get home if anything happens
-Make sure you have fully comprehensive insurance and if you are an EU citizen an E111 card
-Pack a mini first aid kit including your painkiller of choice, forgetting what asprin in French was my downfall once.
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 18, 2013, 12:17:24 PM
oh wow, this thread has really taken off.  :ears:

Thanks to DisneyDancer92 and orangarnold for adding some very valuable tips and hints from their own experiences.

I've changed the title a bit to fit in with how the thread has evolved,  as I think this thread should be a standalone thread and I will do a new thread for my trip report.

To add on to what orangarnold posted

1, I always print 2 copies of my initiatory and all reservation confirmation emails,  I leave one set at home and put my set in a folder.

2.  I plan every travel route before hand, Googling maps and depending on the route, sometimes printing maps.

3. I make sure to give my home contact person the name, address and telephone number of my accommodation, the airline and flight numbers or the  train /bus company name & expected time of departure and arrival.  I always text my home contact person at each stage of my journey and depending how long I am away & what I am doing, I usually text a couple of times during the trip.

4. Depending on the country I am visiting and how long I will be away, I also bring a basic first aid kit.  This usually includes painkillers, re-hydration sachets, plasters, anti diarrhea tablets and throat lozenges.

5. Travel Insurance is also something you need to have and as orangarnold stated, Europeans make sure you have your E11.  

6. Also contact your bank if you plan to use your bank cards in ATM's or pay in shops and restaurants. Tell them you are going out of the country and will be using your cards when away. This might seem a bit silly but I learnt the hard way with this. When you use your card your Bank knows and if there is something outside your normal usage, it gets flagged immediately.  This means your bank will block the use of your card and will contact you to verify it is you and that your  card has not been stolen.  If this happens in a foreign country, it can leave you without access to your money for a minimum of 12 hrs.  If this happens, its easy to get your card unblocked but it just takes a bit of time and effort. If your card gets blocked when in a different country, you need to contact your bank immediately.  You will need to have the international phone number of your bank, and your full account details.  I always make sure that my home contact person has a copy of my bank details, just in case I have a problem calling my bank from a different country.  You will also need to remember time differences and if it is outside regular banking hours.  

This sounds scary but the main thing if this happens is not to panic and that it will get sorted but it might take some time.

7. Another thing that has happened to me is travel disruption.  In a perfect world, every flight takes off on time, roads are always open,  people don't go on strike, and all the other things that happen to delay or disrupt your journey.

If something happens on journey, don't panic.  

If your flight is delayed or cancelled, it is the airlines responsibility to make sure you complete your journey.  Many people get angry and abusive towards airline staff but if you don't, if you remain calm and just go with the flow, then things will get sorted much quicker.  Yes your plans will be disrupted, yes you may have to miss something at your destination, but take it from me,   so what.  The only thing that matters is that you arrive at your destination safe.  

Depending on how long your flight is delayed, the airlines offer various things. My advice is to take whatever the airline is offering, don't cancel or re-book with another company, as you will just get yourself all stressed out with trying sort out a new itinerary.  

8. When flying, bags do get mislaid. If this happens , again, don't panic.  Every airline has a customer service desk in the baggage collection area. Just go to them with your details.  When this happened to me, it was due to a very short time between connecting flights.  I had run through the airport and made it onto the connecting flight but my bag was not processed as quick and didn't make it. When I arrived at my destination, my bag never appeared on the luggage carousel. I went to the airline customer service desk and they knew exactly where my bag was.   I filled in some forms, gave them my hotel info and I was given a tracking number. My bag was put on the next flight and delivered by the airline to my hotel the next morning.  It meant that I couldn't change my clothes when I arrived but I knew my bag was on its way as the airline gave me  a phone number which I could ring and with the tracking number I could follow my bags progress.  Again, many people would get angry and abusive with the airline staff in this situation but to me, it wasn't worth it. I knew how short the time was between the two flights and I could understand why my bag had not made it onto the second flight.
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: PrincessHi on February 18, 2013, 09:21:27 PM
So many things I hadn't thought if in this thread! Thanks guys!
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: orangarnold on February 18, 2013, 09:59:54 PM
I totally forgot about letting your bank know that you are going abroad, and it's just reminded me I need to do this for my trip in two weeks! Whoops!
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 19, 2013, 11:24:59 AM
Quote from: "PrincessHi"So many things I hadn't thought if in this thread! Thanks guys!

Your welcome  :)  In my experience your family or guardian  worry about you travelling alone and thats their main objection when you first start planning your solo trip.  They just want to know that you will be safe , and that you are able to cope in difficult situations.   If they don't want you to do a solo trip, its not cos they are spoilsports and are being mean, its cos they are not sure you know what you are doing.  Its up to you to gain their trust and prove to them that you are.

Involve your family or guardian with your trip planning,  show them that you are capable of doing this.  Ask their advice about  how they coped when something went wrong.  You never know, they might say something which you never thought of  :)

Quote from: "orangarnold "I totally forgot about letting your bank know that you are going abroad, and it's just reminded me I need to do this for my trip in two weeks! Whoops!

 8)  me too, I need to sort this for March
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: orangarnold on February 21, 2013, 12:27:00 AM
We all forgot the number one rule: have fun!!!!
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 21, 2013, 11:24:00 AM
unfortunatly I have had to cancel my Disneyland Paris holiday,  not happy at all, but something beyond my control happned. Hopefully I might be able to rebook for later in the year  :(
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: orangarnold on February 21, 2013, 12:19:03 PM
Quote from: "bad-pink-tink"unfortunatly I have had to cancel my Disneyland Paris holiday,  not happy at all, but something beyond my control happned. Hopefully I might be able to rebook for later in the year  :(

I know how bad that is, I was meant to have gone this weekend but my Granddad passed away last week and his funeral was on Monday.

I hope everything is ok
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: bad-pink-tink on February 21, 2013, 12:42:19 PM
Thanks, Im ok, just something which I had no control over, a very unexpected situation.  Ive spent the morning on the phone, cancelling flights and hotels, as the Disney holiday was part of a longer trip.  oh well, just need to try to fit in later in the year...sigh...
Title: Re: Solo Traveler Gives Advice About Travelling Alone
Post by: DisneyDancer92 on February 22, 2013, 11:49:19 AM
Oh no- im so sorry to hear you had to cancel your trip  :( I hope you'll get sorted whatever has happened so you can go at some other point. Must be a devastating feeling to have to cancel- but Disneyland will allways be there- and your "real" life comes first :)